A friend is someone who understand your past, belives in your future, and accepts you today just the way you are

- Unknown

College day is about to come. My holiday only remains in less than a week. I'm starting to write about why i like about college life, so it's easier for me to come back in reality. So i met this girl, a friend of mine. Hm.. Sorry, we're bestfriend. And we like to have such talk, what i usually called quality talk. This girl easily fit with me because we have so many things in common yet many different point of views. We usually talk about our life, family, friends, and most of all is about the future. What we wanna be in the next five years.

She might look like an ordinary girl, but her mind is super unexpected. She have other things on her mind that you might never imagine (in a good way). Such as what we want within three years from now. While i'm dreaming to get my degree as soon as i can and as good as i can be, she's planning to go to Mecca for fulfill the fifth pillar of Islam. I love to eat junkfood, MSG snack and avoid vegetable, but she's obsess with organic thingy and every thing green. I always wanted to got the best score in every class, but she think the most important is to understand what the lectures say. After i figured out about her statement, and also after her failure in a subject. We break down to the point that if you understand the subject, eventually you'll get the score that you deserve.

The other thing about the future that we used to talk about is who? It's a very simple question. But then again, the complex answer follow. Who will you share your future with? Like other girls, we like to talk about the opposite gender. I mean, who doesn't? And again, we have things in common and also different point of views. She really believe in the term 'jodoh'. She even refuses to date. Yes, she's 20 and never been in a relationship because she just doesn't want. Her mind is about getting married after she find her match. Me? I kind a believe in 'jodoh', perfect match, soulmate or what so over. I know there's someone for everyone. But i think we should give it a try. After you meet a few wrong turns, somehow you know your right way. I think that's the way you find your perfect match, by knowing what's wrong and right.

After a lot of talk about this, we still believe in our own perspective. Well everyone's free to have their own belief, right? The point is after that talk, i'm thinking about what she use to call 'your kinda guy'. I argued that i don't have 'my kinda guy'. No, i think i'm not pretty-and-good enough to set a bunch of criteria. But she break my point when she said that "Of course you have, you just don't want to admit it". Tha ah, maybe i do have.

Well, i started to count what i want to find in a guy. I love to see a guy who can talk in a simple & normal conversation, but shows that he has a high intelligence. I love to see a funny, and humble guy who can easily mingle with his or even my friends. I like to meet a guy who honor his religion (which have to be same with me), and has a plan for his future. Like other girls, i want to have a guy who can make me fall for him again, and again. And yes, i love guys with instrument. Then i stopped my self and say, "That's why you're still single. You ask too much, Clar. You'll never find that kind a guy." But again, this girl convinced me that everyone deserve the best. We're young, and it's normal to dream about you dream guy.

Thanks again, Ta.
Clarissa Rizky